And for those of you who happened to stumble across this post and are looking for a solution regardless that it costs 300 bucks -- look up Epiphan Systems VGA2USB. Plain, simple, overpriced. But it works and works well.
http://www.epiphan.com/products/frame-grabbers/vga2usb/
If you take a look at the picture or diagram they posted, it shows the idea of the splitter using their product. I wish this idea was as simple as 1) buying the splitter 2) lead one vga into monitor/tv for gaming 3) lead other vga into laptop (since my laptop and most other people's has a female vga connection)
BUT NO.
http://www.epiphan.com/products/frame-grabbers/vga2usb/
If you take a look at the picture or diagram they posted, it shows the idea of the splitter using their product. I wish this idea was as simple as 1) buying the splitter 2) lead one vga into monitor/tv for gaming 3) lead other vga into laptop (since my laptop and most other people's has a female vga connection)
BUT NO.