Thanks you Urasma , for replying --
Fortunately, I solved the problem myself, by luck--
My resolution in w7 was too low for XPM to be able to read the whole menu , hence TOOLS was missing -and in Order to change the XPM RES , you have to go TOOLS, SETTINGS and disable integration --
I was fooling around with the res in w7 and raised it to 1920 and then I just happened to look in XPM and lo and behold , there was TOOLS-- With INTEGRATION disabled , I can play with the RES. to my heart's content
I thought about reinstalling XPM, but I was quite certain that I would have the same problem, and obviously, that would be true as long as I used thatlow RES of W7--
Maybe this could be of some use to someone--
Thank you, Ralph