Welcome to tsf. Yes buying that 8600 was a mistake. So to answer all your question quickly
1. The integrated graphics cannot be crossfired
2. You wouldnt want to anyways because they suck
3. The radeon 3470's also suck even in crossfire
4. 3870 would be best
5. To use a 3870 you need a better powersupply
Are you using the powersupply the case came with? This is a problem as the freebee case powersupplies are very low quality and are usually thrown in the cases to move them off the shelves. You WILL need a quality power supply for a higher end card. Let me know your budget and we can start shopping.
1. The integrated graphics cannot be crossfired
2. You wouldnt want to anyways because they suck
3. The radeon 3470's also suck even in crossfire
4. 3870 would be best
5. To use a 3870 you need a better powersupply
Are you using the powersupply the case came with? This is a problem as the freebee case powersupplies are very low quality and are usually thrown in the cases to move them off the shelves. You WILL need a quality power supply for a higher end card. Let me know your budget and we can start shopping.