Enable ActiveX controls (Gmail requirement)

Sorry. I was advised by Gmail that I must enable ActiveX controls in order to get to my mail. I followed their instructions, as shown in my question, but got nowhere...That's why I turned to you good folks.
Thank you. Best of Holidays Down Below, as well !

Somehow, someway, the problems are eliminated. Please don't ask me to explain what happened - I have no faint idea!! And I am not even half-stupid..
I appreciate your responses and wish everyone Happy Holidays!

I will now activate a new computer with Vista installed (God Forbid---), which I will replace with XP PRO. That means you can expect more questions from me. I have carefully read every bit of instructions and expect no issues.If i do, I will solicit your help again--
My very bests,
Tom