maybe this is one of those things that can't be helped but i'm giving it a try anyhow. I use a program called Ares which I assume alot of you have heard of or used before. my problem is with connecting to it. when I had dial up connection it only took a few minutes at times to connect then it was fine afterwards. now that I have cable it takes forever to connect. when it finally does connect after awhile. short time after it disconnects where I have to wait all over again. anyone have that trouble before?