Please pray - Page 3

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-13-2008, 03:38 PM

thank you =] im actually feeling alot better i honestly was the orset i ever was, i mean we were perfect together in that year we never had a single fight

**Titomike** · 11-13-2008, 04:48 PM

You and her have shared the pinnacle of human experience...to love and be loved...and are both the better for it.

With privilege comes responsibility....

As you said...you will always be what she gave you and so in keeping her memory alive you'll make the world a little brighter for all of us....it needs all the help it can get starting with her family.

Your head is clearing and your heart remains in the right place....I wish you the all best in sharing her gift to you.

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-13-2008, 05:03 PM

thats the most amazing thing ive heard..

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-14-2008, 05:25 AM

her sister went to the hospital last night...

**Titomike** · 11-14-2008, 05:50 AM

Is she alright so far?

I'm guessing that this is good thing as those guys know what they're doing...

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-14-2008, 06:02 AM

oh yeah (the only reason ashley died was because she was in the hospital), but she fell off her bed onto some scissors and a razor

**Titomike** · 11-14-2008, 06:18 AM

All hospital issues aside...this is a horrendous sequence of events for anyone to face.

Almost always it would be overwhelming as it could have been at any previous point.

It seems like you two made the best of a very short time...

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-14-2008, 06:20 AM

we did, i saw this coming a week before anyone this happened and i told herthat we might not have forever, but...... and i dont remember the rest but she liked it =]

**Titomike** · 11-14-2008, 06:48 AM

I know mean....when you really connect with someone you feel like you are at the centre of the universe so time has stopped and there is only forever...and you get to keep it.

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-14-2008, 06:51 AM

i wish we did =/

**Titomike** · 11-14-2008, 07:07 AM

We do in so much as we get to keep any of our past....it has shaped who we are in the present and at that moment you both knew it.

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-14-2008, 07:36 AM

Yes, i mean atleast i made her life better, and extended it a bit.

(i just found out that for 4 months she had been trying to kill herself , but when i started talking to her she stoped, that made me feel amazing =])

**Titomike** · 11-14-2008, 07:57 AM

When divergent paths connect the experience is intense but fragile...

It takes courage and commitment but as you found out is it's own reward...

It happens fast...like a rollercoaster and you know you're alive but taking your chances....

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-14-2008, 03:33 PM

yes, thats true

**Titomike** · 11-14-2008, 05:36 PM

All we can do is appreciate opportunities taken, banish regrets and 'what might have been'....it was'nt

Happiness is about trying not succeeding....and you guys did that.

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-14-2008, 06:33 PM

yes =]

**Titomike** · 11-15-2008, 03:00 AM

You ok, bro? if so all gud.....

If not...we said we'd be here for you and we will be.....if it's all a bit exposed you know how to PM & i'll figure it out

I guess you're dealing with the funeral happening....i know that's gotta be hard

I'll just chill til you want to check in.

**Cathy95820** · 11-15-2008, 06:26 AM

I am so sorry to hear that Ashley passed away. The words you wrote are beautiful. Please talk, laugh, cry. At the risk of sounding like a weirdo, from what I have read here, maybe God sent you to her. If she was trying to take her life before, clearly you gave her reason to want to live. God didn't want her to take her own life.

Even when we live to grow old, our time is but a moment.

I hang out here alot too, so if you want to talk please don't hesitate to contact me. You never get over losing loved ones, but as time passes the memories don't make your heart hurt quite as bad.

My son-in-law passed unexpectedly 2 yrs ago. He was only 28. My daughter and 3 little ones (then 9, 6 & 3 yrs) have had a tough time but the sun is finally starting to peek through the clouds for Amy.

Cathy

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-15-2008, 06:33 AM

that is quite true, i would rather ofhad her die like this then by her own hand

11-13-2008, 03:38 PM	#41 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray thank you =] im actually feeling alot better i honestly was the orset i ever was, i mean we were perfect together in that year we never had a single fight __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan

11-13-2008, 04:48 PM	#42 (permalink)
Titomike TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: New Zealand Posts: 975 OS: xp pro sp3 My System	Re: Please pray You and her have shared the pinnacle of human experience...to love and be loved...and are both the better for it. With privilege comes responsibility.... As you said...you will always be what she gave you and so in keeping her memory alive you'll make the world a little brighter for all of us....it needs all the help it can get starting with her family. Your head is clearing and your heart remains in the right place....I wish you the all best in sharing her gift to you.

11-13-2008, 05:03 PM	#43 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray thats the most amazing thing ive heard.. __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan

11-14-2008, 05:25 AM	#44 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray her sister went to the hospital last night... __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan

11-14-2008, 05:50 AM	#45 (permalink)
Titomike TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: New Zealand Posts: 975 OS: xp pro sp3 My System	Re: Please pray Is she alright so far? I'm guessing that this is good thing as those guys know what they're doing...

11-14-2008, 06:02 AM	#46 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray oh yeah (the only reason ashley died was because she was in the hospital), but she fell off her bed onto some scissors and a razor __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan

11-14-2008, 06:18 AM	#47 (permalink)
Titomike TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: New Zealand Posts: 975 OS: xp pro sp3 My System	Re: Please pray All hospital issues aside...this is a horrendous sequence of events for anyone to face. Almost always it would be overwhelming as it could have been at any previous point. It seems like you two made the best of a very short time...

11-14-2008, 06:20 AM	#48 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray we did, i saw this coming a week before anyone this happened and i told herthat we might not have forever, but...... and i dont remember the rest but she liked it =] __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan

11-14-2008, 06:48 AM	#49 (permalink)
Titomike TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: New Zealand Posts: 975 OS: xp pro sp3 My System	Re: Please pray I know mean....when you really connect with someone you feel like you are at the centre of the universe so time has stopped and there is only forever...and you get to keep it.

11-14-2008, 06:51 AM	#50 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray i wish we did =/ __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan

11-14-2008, 07:07 AM	#51 (permalink)
Titomike TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: New Zealand Posts: 975 OS: xp pro sp3 My System	Re: Please pray We do in so much as we get to keep any of our past....it has shaped who we are in the present and at that moment you both knew it.

11-14-2008, 07:36 AM	#52 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray Yes, i mean atleast i made her life better, and extended it a bit. (i just found out that for 4 months she had been trying to kill herself , but when i started talking to her she stoped, that made me feel amazing =]) __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan

11-14-2008, 07:57 AM	#53 (permalink)
Titomike TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: New Zealand Posts: 975 OS: xp pro sp3 My System	Re: Please pray When divergent paths connect the experience is intense but fragile... It takes courage and commitment but as you found out is it's own reward... It happens fast...like a rollercoaster and you know you're alive but taking your chances....

11-14-2008, 03:33 PM	#54 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray yes, thats true __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan

11-14-2008, 05:36 PM	#55 (permalink)
Titomike TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: New Zealand Posts: 975 OS: xp pro sp3 My System	Re: Please pray All we can do is appreciate opportunities taken, banish regrets and 'what might have been'....it was'nt Happiness is about trying not succeeding....and you guys did that.

11-14-2008, 06:33 PM	#56 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray yes =] __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan

11-15-2008, 03:00 AM	#57 (permalink)
Titomike TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: New Zealand Posts: 975 OS: xp pro sp3 My System	Re: Please pray You ok, bro? if so all gud..... If not...we said we'd be here for you and we will be.....if it's all a bit exposed you know how to PM & i'll figure it out I guess you're dealing with the funeral happening....i know that's gotta be hard I'll just chill til you want to check in.

11-15-2008, 06:26 AM	#58 (permalink)
Cathy95820 TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Sacramento, CA Posts: 2,368 OS: Windows XP Svs.Pk 3	Re: Please pray I am so sorry to hear that Ashley passed away. The words you wrote are beautiful. Please talk, laugh, cry. At the risk of sounding like a weirdo, from what I have read here, maybe God sent you to her. If she was trying to take her life before, clearly you gave her reason to want to live. God didn't want her to take her own life. Even when we live to grow old, our time is but a moment. I hang out here alot too, so if you want to talk please don't hesitate to contact me. You never get over losing loved ones, but as time passes the memories don't make your heart hurt quite as bad. My son-in-law passed unexpectedly 2 yrs ago. He was only 28. My daughter and 3 little ones (then 9, 6 & 3 yrs) have had a tough time but the sun is finally starting to peek through the clouds for Amy. Cathy

11-15-2008, 06:33 AM	#59 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray that is quite true, i would rather ofhad her die like this then by her own hand __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan