Please pray - Page 2

DonaldG · 11-12-2008, 02:11 AM

Let her family know that the TSF Family from all over the world, send our condolences and are thinking of them.

**Titomike** · 11-12-2008, 06:36 AM

All that truly matters is the people we love & that love us......please take comfort, as I hope she did, that you & her family were able to be with her at the end.

Please extend our condolences to her parents they will need support from you all for a long-time to come....

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-12-2008, 09:39 PM

her family is falling apart, this is the second daughter they lost,i wrote something for the funeral if anyone wanted to read it pm me

**Moki** · 11-12-2008, 10:48 PM

I'm so, so sorry to hear of your loss...I will keep you in my prayers, Ig0t. What a difficult time for you, but you sure have a lot of friends here who care about you. Love and hugs...

**BCCOMP** · 11-12-2008, 11:32 PM

Sorry to hear about your loss 1got.

My prayers are with you and her familiy.
Bill

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-13-2008, 05:39 AM

thank you everyone, and for anyone that wanted to see her heres her myspace http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm...ndid=365060387

**vladimirb** · 11-13-2008, 06:09 AM

I am sorry about your loss mate...

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-13-2008, 06:12 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Titomike

All that truly matters is the people we love & that love us......please take comfort, as I hope she did, that you & her family were able to be with her at the end.

Please extend our condolences to her parents they will need support from you all for a long-time to come....

and i really said somehting stupid to her when we thought she would live

, (she actually died of an infection in the hospital , not the injurys from the accident)

**BCCOMP** · 11-13-2008, 06:16 AM

She is alive in your HEART and THOUGHTS.

You have a beautiful angel watching over you.

Bill

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-13-2008, 06:19 AM

i know =/ i just dont see why we have to die when we are so young...

**BCCOMP** · 11-13-2008, 06:26 AM

I know it is hard on everyone envolved, but heaven always has a reason for it.
Maybe, heaven did not want her to suffer the pain of cancer.
Bill

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-13-2008, 06:28 AM

=/ she was over the cancer =/ that was her last treatment, she was just not very lucky i mean shes almost died 7 major times since her last birthday (june 20)

**Titomike** · 11-13-2008, 06:41 AM

I'm so sorry to hear this is another tragedy for the family...although they are at their lowest ebb the family will not fall apart...

Grief is horribly personal and isolating but patience & empathy offered and recieved are the way forward....shared pain will bond them back together.

What you say at the funeral is not as important as standing up for her to say it. Please don't stress about the words, they will pale in comparison to the emotional connection of shared grief.

She was a beautiful girl, if she was happy that's all any of us can hope for & making her so all you could do for her.... any life is a good life.

Be strong, brother.

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-13-2008, 06:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Titomike

I'm so sorry to hear this is another tragedy for the family...although they are at their lowest ebb the family will not fall apart...

Grief is horribly personal and isolating but patience & empathy offered and recieved are the way forward....shared pain will bond them back together.

What you say at the funeral is not as important as standing up for her to say it. Please don't stress about the words, they will pale in comparison to the emotional connection of shared grief.

She was a beautiful girl, if she was happy that's all any of us can hope for & making her so all you could do for her.... any life is a good life.

Be strong, brother.

HEr family is falling apart she was what held them together after her little sister died, now hger other sister is suicidal, her mom beats her and the days still in the hospital

ALso i can take comfort in knowing i made her life better and a bit longer as well (she was trying to kill herself when i met her)

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-13-2008, 06:54 AM

oh yeah and unfortunatly they are having the funeral across the country with her other family and i wont be able to attend her sister is reading ti for me

**Titomike** · 11-13-2008, 07:20 AM

Dude....it seems this situation is way messed up beyond your control.

I see now why you might want to choose your words carefully....to put something positve out there for anyone who can to grab onto. If you succeed that bit of paper will be around for a fair while. Give it a shot...it's all you can do long distance.

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-13-2008, 07:36 AM

this is what i have chosen

Through ive only known ashley for about a year, if you had asked me to imagine life without her i would have said "no,i would rather be dead than be without her", and as of nov 11 i know that is true. I would rather be dead. All that i wanted was for her to be happy because thats what made me happy, And i can honestly say that i loved her more than anything, and i still do, for she was the most amazing person that i have ever met, and i will always remember her as such, she will never be second, not for a second.

For the past year not a minute went by that i didnt think about you ashley, and now i know that there never will be a time that i wont, even if i am able to move on there wont be a day i dont think about you, and for some reason i know that we will be together one day,forever and always and until that day i love you and i always will, my only regret is that i didnt get to say goodbye, but one day that wont matter, one day we will be together and after that day i wont let anyone or anything tear us apart

I love you and Goodbye for now
Love, Josh

DonaldG · 11-13-2008, 08:29 AM

God bless you Josh. We are all with you in spirit. Hang in there my friend.

**1 g0t 0wn3d** · 11-13-2008, 08:48 AM

thank you ...

Tumbleweed36 · 11-13-2008, 08:58 AM

I am so sorry to hear of the situation and the death of a loved one. You did a nice job of saying what was in your heart. Let God now guide you on how to proceed and he will bless you and comfort you in your time of need.

11-12-2008, 02:11 AM	#21 (permalink)
DonaldG Manager Home Support, Assistant Manager Articles Team Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Somerset, UK Posts: 10,164 OS: XPsp2 Laptop & Vista Ultimate Desktop My System Blog Entries: 1	Re: Please pray Let her family know that the TSF Family from all over the world, send our condolences and are thinking of them. __________________ . Lest we forget... "They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old; Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn. At the going down of the sun and in the morning We will remember them." Submit New Articles Here TSF's Photographer's Corner .

11-12-2008, 06:36 AM	#22 (permalink)
Titomike TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: New Zealand Posts: 975 OS: xp pro sp3 My System	Re: Please pray All that truly matters is the people we love & that love us......please take comfort, as I hope she did, that you & her family were able to be with her at the end. Please extend our condolences to her parents they will need support from you all for a long-time to come....

11-12-2008, 09:39 PM	#23 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray her family is falling apart, this is the second daughter they lost,i wrote something for the funeral if anyone wanted to read it pm me __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan

11-12-2008, 10:48 PM	#24 (permalink)
Moki TSF Articles Team Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: West Coast Raintown Posts: 1,500 OS: XP PRO SP2 & u-u-Ubuntu	Re: Please pray I'm so, so sorry to hear of your loss...I will keep you in my prayers, Ig0t. What a difficult time for you, but you sure have a lot of friends here who care about you. Love and hugs... __________________ Submit New Articles Here

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BCCOMP Mod Hardware Team Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: New York Posts: 6,982 OS: Win XP SP3 / Windows 7 Beta / Open Suse My System	Re: Please pray Sorry to hear about your loss 1got. My prayers are with you and her familiy. Bill __________________ PC Wizard \| Everest \| Power supply info \| Memtest86+ PC Running Slow Speedfan

11-13-2008, 05:39 AM	#26 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray thank you everyone, and for anyone that wanted to see her heres her myspace http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm...ndid=365060387 __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan

11-13-2008, 06:09 AM	#27 (permalink)
vladimirb Mentor Hardware Team Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Banja Luka, Serb Republic Posts: 3,627 OS: xp pro sp3, Server 2003, Windows 7 Professional x64bit My System	Re: Please pray I am sorry about your loss mate... __________________ MCP - MCSA Cisco SMB Account Manager

11-13-2008, 06:16 AM	#29 (permalink)
BCCOMP Mod Hardware Team Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: New York Posts: 6,982 OS: Win XP SP3 / Windows 7 Beta / Open Suse My System	Re: Please pray She is alive in your HEART and THOUGHTS. You have a beautiful angel watching over you. Bill __________________ PC Wizard \| Everest \| Power supply info \| Memtest86+ PC Running Slow Speedfan

11-13-2008, 06:19 AM	#30 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray i know =/ i just dont see why we have to die when we are so young... __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan

11-13-2008, 06:26 AM	#31 (permalink)
BCCOMP Mod Hardware Team Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: New York Posts: 6,982 OS: Win XP SP3 / Windows 7 Beta / Open Suse My System	Re: Please pray I know it is hard on everyone envolved, but heaven always has a reason for it. Maybe, heaven did not want her to suffer the pain of cancer. Bill __________________ PC Wizard \| Everest \| Power supply info \| Memtest86+ PC Running Slow Speedfan

11-13-2008, 06:28 AM	#32 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray =/ she was over the cancer =/ that was her last treatment, she was just not very lucky i mean shes almost died 7 major times since her last birthday (june 20) __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan

11-13-2008, 06:41 AM	#33 (permalink)
Titomike TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: New Zealand Posts: 975 OS: xp pro sp3 My System	Re: Please pray I'm so sorry to hear this is another tragedy for the family...although they are at their lowest ebb the family will not fall apart... Grief is horribly personal and isolating but patience & empathy offered and recieved are the way forward....shared pain will bond them back together. What you say at the funeral is not as important as standing up for her to say it. Please don't stress about the words, they will pale in comparison to the emotional connection of shared grief. She was a beautiful girl, if she was happy that's all any of us can hope for & making her so all you could do for her.... any life is a good life. Be strong, brother.

11-13-2008, 06:54 AM	#35 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray oh yeah and unfortunatly they are having the funeral across the country with her other family and i wont be able to attend her sister is reading ti for me __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan

11-13-2008, 07:20 AM	#36 (permalink)
Titomike TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: New Zealand Posts: 975 OS: xp pro sp3 My System	Re: Please pray Dude....it seems this situation is way messed up beyond your control. I see now why you might want to choose your words carefully....to put something positve out there for anyone who can to grab onto. If you succeed that bit of paper will be around for a fair while. Give it a shot...it's all you can do long distance.

11-13-2008, 07:36 AM	#37 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray this is what i have chosen Through ive only known ashley for about a year, if you had asked me to imagine life without her i would have said "no,i would rather be dead than be without her", and as of nov 11 i know that is true. I would rather be dead. All that i wanted was for her to be happy because thats what made me happy, And i can honestly say that i loved her more than anything, and i still do, for she was the most amazing person that i have ever met, and i will always remember her as such, she will never be second, not for a second. For the past year not a minute went by that i didnt think about you ashley, and now i know that there never will be a time that i wont, even if i am able to move on there wont be a day i dont think about you, and for some reason i know that we will be together one day,forever and always and until that day i love you and i always will, my only regret is that i didnt get to say goodbye, but one day that wont matter, one day we will be together and after that day i wont let anyone or anything tear us apart I love you and Goodbye for now Love, Josh __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan

11-13-2008, 08:29 AM	#38 (permalink)
DonaldG Manager Home Support, Assistant Manager Articles Team Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Somerset, UK Posts: 10,164 OS: XPsp2 Laptop & Vista Ultimate Desktop My System Blog Entries: 1	Re: Please pray God bless you Josh. We are all with you in spirit. Hang in there my friend. __________________ . Lest we forget... "They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old; Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn. At the going down of the sun and in the morning We will remember them." Submit New Articles Here TSF's Photographer's Corner .

11-13-2008, 08:48 AM	#39 (permalink)
1 g0t 0wn3d TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Sedona, az Posts: 6,528 OS: Vista basic 32bit My System	Re: Please pray thank you ... __________________ Bench Test \| PC Wizard \| System specs \| PSU info \| PSU calculator \| Memtest86+ \| Speedfan

11-13-2008, 08:58 AM	#40 (permalink)
Tumbleweed36 Asst Manager Hardware Join Date: May 2005 Location: USA Posts: 19,616 OS: XP Professional	Re: Please pray I am so sorry to hear of the situation and the death of a loved one. You did a nice job of saying what was in your heart. Let God now guide you on how to proceed and he will bless you and comfort you in your time of need. __________________ ---------- I don't receive email notifications of replies to subscribed threads. (Internet provider policy) Therefore, if I don't respond to your post within 24 hours, please send me a reminder PM and include the link to your thread.