Jen56 is leaving TSF [Resolved]

**jen56** · 07-08-2007, 02:59 AM

Hi All

This is just to let you know that Jen56 is leaving TSF. Just not happy with the way a few things are being run here.
Been lovely meeting and chatting to you all, and I have come to know a few fantastic members here.

Cheers..

**Go The Power** · 07-08-2007, 03:15 AM

Jen I have already tried to talk you out of it. I dont wont you to go.

It has been great knowing you and this place wont be the same without you

**Done_Fishin** · 07-08-2007, 03:22 AM

Sorry to hear that you are leaving .. not sure why exactly but if my experience of recent are anything to go by .. I know things have gotten rather frustrating and I am hoping that things will improve before we all find ourselves needing to look for a new hobby!
take care of yourself and good luck with whatever you take on next

**Joefireline** · 07-08-2007, 03:28 AM

Don't leave! You can't!
Why are you leaving? Surely you could still come here to just post a bit in the night or something?

**Go The Power** · 07-08-2007, 03:30 AM

I dont want you too go

**Glaswegian** · 07-08-2007, 08:55 AM

Hi Jen

I'm shocked at this - I don't know the details here, but hope you can return soon. Perhaps take a breather for a few days?

If there's anything I can do to help, just let me know.

JohnthePilot · 07-08-2007, 09:04 AM

Hi Jen,
I can't believe you're leaving because of the comments of a minority. C'mon! You're made of stronger stuff that that.

Stick and fight it out.

Best wishes,
John.

**Joefireline** · 07-08-2007, 09:57 AM

I'm trying to persuade her to stay, but one thing needs sorting out...

**Done_Fishin** · 07-08-2007, 10:40 AM

You Jen is a girl!!! The she definitely mustn't leave .. womens lib , mcp and all that .. we can't leave our other lovely ladies on their own .. stick together .. lets work this out ..
grovel grovel grovel ... pretty please

Tumbleweed36 · 07-08-2007, 03:37 PM

Jen56,

First of all, I don't know you but have come across your very pleasant welcoming and posting in several areas. The new life you breath in things is important to the health of the forum. You have been a refreshing part of what this forum is about and that is making people welcome in a pleasant way. Your presence even to those who don't communicate much in the areas you visit will be missed.

I don't know the details of your decision, because that is none of my business. However, I would like you to consider stepping back a bit and taking a few days off while you reconsider what you have chosen to do.

Regardless of your final decision, walk tall, keep smiling, and the best of luck to you. Your contributions were much appreciated and will be missed by many.

**PanamaGal** · 07-09-2007, 05:38 AM

Jen, there's just not enough of us girls here. Please reconsider and stay. I do not know you, but I have read a number of your posts, and found you to be very friendly and welcoming. I think it would be a great loss to this forum, and a personal loss to a number of us, if you left. So, I implore you to take some time and think about it. Whatever has happened, it appears you still have many friends here who care. Alas though, should you decide to leave, I wish you the very best. But I would rather wish you that with you still here.

**Kalim** · 07-09-2007, 10:20 AM

I welcome you back Jen, just like you welcome other of us aboard.

You are one of the most nicer people I've seen online, undoubtedly, and I appreciate that greatly. It adds to the forum, and we need elder, balanced and mature individuals online, to help guide the forum environment and set the younger of us straight if immaturity appears.

I realize "approximately" why you have chosen this route. There are many things that do not suite us around, and there are many principles which are not according to my own professional conduct nor ethics or how I'd meet around in life, but I still come online on here, aswell as other forums to help, and I'll continue to do so when and if I can for the betterment of someone else.

There are some "boundary lines" which even being made crystal clear, apparently, are waived discreetly, and when being on any forum, you soon find out which and where. For the better of us, I feel you should stay.

If there is anything you feel that is incorrect, then PM/email the member concerned to talk it over if you will, and take some time out and see how you feel subsequently. When one is "unhappy" at a certain event, it's difficult to bite the feelings, but they do clear away to make more sense with time.

**Doby** · 07-09-2007, 07:51 PM

Jen,

I have read many of your posts and your pleasant personality and your friendly manner are assets to our community, and thats very important to me so if there is anything I can do please PM me.

Rick

**grumpygit** · 07-10-2007, 10:59 AM

You can't leave Jen, who else is going to give Glas a hard time in the arcade?
Hope you can change your mind and stay.

**speedster123** · 07-11-2007, 05:07 AM

Hi Jen
Your a young grandma, so I am sure you have thicker skin than that.
I will miss the pleasantries you provide.
Now, dont make me bark at you and get back to work !!
The Dog

**nickster_uk** · 07-11-2007, 03:09 PM

Seems like a sad way to go but should the forum be redesigned to suit personal needs? There's many things I'm not completely happy about on the various forums i'm a member of but sometimes you have to see the bigger picture and that is the purpose of the forum.

However, if you have a grievance with anyone or anything, then that needs to be dealt with.

Codeman0013 · 07-11-2007, 03:27 PM

Jen i must say in the short amount of time i have been here you have been kind of a beacon of help and happiness lol. Please dont go stay here and continue to make our days better. If there is anything any of us can do just let us know we all support you.

**TheMatt** · 07-11-2007, 06:57 PM

Where are you going? Surly we can accommodate you here. Are there any changes you feel strongly for?

Please let us know of any changes you feel should be made. Don't go please.

**jen56** · 07-13-2007, 10:49 PM

After much soul searching and heartache, since a particular event occured on TSF, I have made the decision to stay with this Forum.

I also refuse to be pushed out of this Forum by certain members.

( It's like the old saying... "Sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me! )

I love this Forum and enjoy doing what I have been doing.

Thanks to you all for your support shown to me.

**Go The Power** · 07-13-2007, 11:45 PM

That is great to here that you are back again Jen

07-08-2007, 02:59 AM	#1 (permalink)
jen56 TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Elizabeth. South Australia. Australia Posts: 2,649 OS: XP My System	Jen56 is leaving TSF [Resolved] Hi All This is just to let you know that Jen56 is leaving TSF. Just not happy with the way a few things are being run here. Been lovely meeting and chatting to you all, and I have come to know a few fantastic members here. Cheers.. __________________ GO AHEAD MAKE MY DAY!!! Regards Jen

07-08-2007, 03:15 AM	#2 (permalink)
Go The Power Moderator, Microsoft Support Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: South Australia Posts: 10,972 OS: Windows XP Home SP2 Blog Entries: 1	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF Jen I have already tried to talk you out of it. I dont wont you to go. It has been great knowing you and this place wont be the same without you __________________

07-08-2007, 03:22 AM	#3 (permalink)
Done_Fishin Moderator Hardware Team Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Brit living in Greece Posts: 7,467 OS: WinME, WinXP Pro SP3, Win7 Beta, Ubuntu 9.04 & Netbook Remix & CD2USB, Mepis 6.5, Fedora 10 My System	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF Sorry to hear that you are leaving .. not sure why exactly but if my experience of recent are anything to go by .. I know things have gotten rather frustrating and I am hoping that things will improve before we all find ourselves needing to look for a new hobby! take care of yourself and good luck with whatever you take on next __________________ . . I'm not old!! I'm age impaired .. D_F I DON'T PLAY GAMES How to mark your thread as solved HDD DIAG UTILS TSF's Photographer's Corner

07-08-2007, 03:28 AM	#4 (permalink)
Joefireline Enthusiastic TSFer~Joseph Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Portishead (Bristol) England Posts: 5,319 OS: Windows 7 64bit(Desktop) / XP Home SP2(laptop) My System	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF Don't leave! You can't! Why are you leaving? Surely you could still come here to just post a bit in the night or something?

07-08-2007, 03:30 AM	#5 (permalink)
Go The Power Moderator, Microsoft Support Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: South Australia Posts: 10,972 OS: Windows XP Home SP2 Blog Entries: 1	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF I dont want you too go __________________

07-08-2007, 08:55 AM	#6 (permalink)
Glaswegian Moderator/ Rangemaster TSF Academy; Analyst, Security Team; Oor Wullie; TSF Surgeon and Resident Comic Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Glasgow Posts: 25,427 OS: Win XP Pro SP3 / Win 7 Pro My System Blog Entries: 10	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF Hi Jen I'm shocked at this - I don't know the details here, but hope you can return soon. Perhaps take a breather for a few days? If there's anything I can do to help, just let me know. __________________ Iain - Defender of the Haggis and all things Scottish. I don't help by PM - post in the Forums. PC Safety & Security::PC running a bit slow?::Donate::Photographers Corner

07-08-2007, 09:04 AM	#7 (permalink)
JohnthePilot Manager, TSF Articles Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Cheltenham, near Wales. Posts: 30,921 OS: XP Home SP3, PCLinux, Vista Home Premium SP1 My System Blog Entries: 1	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF Hi Jen, I can't believe you're leaving because of the comments of a minority. C'mon! You're made of stronger stuff that that. Stick and fight it out. Best wishes, John. __________________ Submit New Articles Here If you feel that TSF has helped you please make a donationand help to keep the forum free Cenedl heb iaith, cenedl heb galon Folding@Home - Team 85015

07-08-2007, 09:57 AM	#8 (permalink)
Joefireline Enthusiastic TSFer~Joseph Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Portishead (Bristol) England Posts: 5,319 OS: Windows 7 64bit(Desktop) / XP Home SP2(laptop) My System	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF I'm trying to persuade her to stay, but one thing needs sorting out...

07-08-2007, 10:40 AM	#9 (permalink)
Done_Fishin Moderator Hardware Team Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Brit living in Greece Posts: 7,467 OS: WinME, WinXP Pro SP3, Win7 Beta, Ubuntu 9.04 & Netbook Remix & CD2USB, Mepis 6.5, Fedora 10 My System	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF You Jen is a girl!!! The she definitely mustn't leave .. womens lib , mcp and all that .. we can't leave our other lovely ladies on their own .. stick together .. lets work this out .. grovel grovel grovel ... pretty please __________________ . . I'm not old!! I'm age impaired .. D_F I DON'T PLAY GAMES How to mark your thread as solved HDD DIAG UTILS TSF's Photographer's Corner

07-08-2007, 03:37 PM	#10 (permalink)
Tumbleweed36 Asst Manager Hardware Join Date: May 2005 Location: USA Posts: 19,650 OS: XP Professional	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF Jen56, First of all, I don't know you but have come across your very pleasant welcoming and posting in several areas. The new life you breath in things is important to the health of the forum. You have been a refreshing part of what this forum is about and that is making people welcome in a pleasant way. Your presence even to those who don't communicate much in the areas you visit will be missed. I don't know the details of your decision, because that is none of my business. However, I would like you to consider stepping back a bit and taking a few days off while you reconsider what you have chosen to do. Regardless of your final decision, walk tall, keep smiling, and the best of luck to you. Your contributions were much appreciated and will be missed by many. __________________ ---------- I don't receive email notifications of replies to subscribed threads. (Internet provider policy) Therefore, if I don't respond to your post within 24 hours, please send me a reminder PM and include the link to your thread.

07-09-2007, 05:38 AM	#11 (permalink)
PanamaGal Mentor Hardware Team Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Panama Posts: 1,240 OS: WinXP Pro SP2; Windows Server 2003; Windows Vista Ultimate; Vista Business	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF Jen, there's just not enough of us girls here. Please reconsider and stay. I do not know you, but I have read a number of your posts, and found you to be very friendly and welcoming. I think it would be a great loss to this forum, and a personal loss to a number of us, if you left. So, I implore you to take some time and think about it. Whatever has happened, it appears you still have many friends here who care. Alas though, should you decide to leave, I wish you the very best. But I would rather wish you that with you still here. __________________ It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed.

07-09-2007, 10:20 AM	#12 (permalink)
Kalim Roaming To Help Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 5,642 OS: Many	I welcome you back Jen, just like you welcome other of us aboard. You are one of the most nicer people I've seen online, undoubtedly, and I appreciate that greatly. It adds to the forum, and we need elder, balanced and mature individuals online, to help guide the forum environment and set the younger of us straight if immaturity appears. I realize "approximately" why you have chosen this route. There are many things that do not suite us around, and there are many principles which are not according to my own professional conduct nor ethics or how I'd meet around in life, but I still come online on here, aswell as other forums to help, and I'll continue to do so when and if I can for the betterment of someone else. There are some "boundary lines" which even being made crystal clear, apparently, are waived discreetly, and when being on any forum, you soon find out which and where. For the better of us, I feel you should stay. If there is anything you feel that is incorrect, then PM/email the member concerned to talk it over if you will, and take some time out and see how you feel subsequently. When one is "unhappy" at a certain event, it's difficult to bite the feelings, but they do clear away to make more sense with time.

07-09-2007, 07:51 PM	#13 (permalink)
Doby Moderator Hardware Team Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Central PA (USA) Posts: 8,082 OS: XP sp2/ Vista My System	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF Jen, I have read many of your posts and your pleasant personality and your friendly manner are assets to our community, and thats very important to me so if there is anything I can do please PM me. Rick __________________ Would you like to help TSF fight cancer and other diseases??? JOIN TEAM TSF Last edited by Doby; 07-09-2007 at 07:58 PM.

07-10-2007, 10:59 AM	#14 (permalink)
grumpygit T-Shirt Winner Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: hertford, england Posts: 4,742 OS: win xp pro sp3 My System Blog Entries: 2	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF You can't leave Jen, who else is going to give Glas a hard time in the arcade? Hope you can change your mind and stay.

07-11-2007, 05:07 AM	#15 (permalink)
speedster123 Mentor Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: United States-New York-Long Island Posts: 5,216 OS: xp pro SP3	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF Hi Jen Your a young grandma, so I am sure you have thicker skin than that. I will miss the pleasantries you provide. Now, dont make me bark at you and get back to work !! The Dog __________________

07-11-2007, 03:09 PM	#16 (permalink)
nickster_uk Moderator, Microsoft Support, Happy to support TSF! Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 7,043 OS: XP Pro SP3, Windows 7 Ultimate, Ubuntu v8.04 My System	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF Seems like a sad way to go but should the forum be redesigned to suit personal needs? There's many things I'm not completely happy about on the various forums i'm a member of but sometimes you have to see the bigger picture and that is the purpose of the forum. However, if you have a grievance with anyone or anything, then that needs to be dealt with. __________________ My system: ASUS P5K-E WiFi \| Intel Core 2 Duo E6600 Conroe 2.4GHz (OC 3.60GHz) \| 4GB Corsair DDR2 XMS2-6400C4 RAM (4-4-4-12) \| PowerColor ATI Radeon HD 3850 Pro Xtreme 512MB GDDR3 GPU \| Maxtor DiamondMax 22 500GB, Maxtor DiamondMax 23 500GB & 2xMaxtor DiamondMax 21 250GB SATA HDDs \| Thermaltake CL-P0114 Heatsink + 6 LED Case Fans \| Corsair HX620W Modular PSU \| Enermax Black Knight (CS-527) Case \| Pioneer DVR-216 SATA 20x20 DVD±RW In a world without walls or fences - who needs Windows and Gates?

07-11-2007, 03:27 PM	#17 (permalink)
Codeman0013 Registered User Join Date: May 2007 Location: Decatur Illinois Posts: 257 OS: Windows 7 My System	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF Jen i must say in the short amount of time i have been here you have been kind of a beacon of help and happiness lol. Please dont go stay here and continue to make our days better. If there is anything any of us can do just let us know we all support you.

07-11-2007, 06:57 PM	#18 (permalink)
TheMatt TSF Enthusiast Join Date: May 2006 Location: Boston Posts: 13,701 OS: Win 3.1, 98, NT 4.0, XP Debian 4.0, Kubuntu 6.06 My System Blog Entries: 3	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF Where are you going? Surly we can accommodate you here. Are there any changes you feel strongly for? Please let us know of any changes you feel should be made. Don't go please. __________________ - Matt M - KB1OSC - Folding@Home 85015 [url="http://www.techsupportforum.com/hardware-support/"] If TSF has helped you, please consider donating. If I have stopped responding to a thread, feel free to send me a PM with a link to the thread. It is advisable to subscribe to threads so you will receive updates when replies are posted. You can subscribe to threads from the "Thread Tools" Menu. »Memtest86 »Prime95 »UBCD »SpeedFan »NHC Personal »Everest »Sandra »PC Wizard »RivaTuner »ATi Tool Click here for Useful Articles and Guides

07-13-2007, 10:49 PM	#19 (permalink)
jen56 TSF Enthusiast Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Elizabeth. South Australia. Australia Posts: 2,649 OS: XP My System	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF After much soul searching and heartache, since a particular event occured on TSF, I have made the decision to stay with this Forum. I also refuse to be pushed out of this Forum by certain members. ( It's like the old saying... "Sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me! ) I love this Forum and enjoy doing what I have been doing. Thanks to you all for your support shown to me. __________________ GO AHEAD MAKE MY DAY!!! Regards Jen

07-13-2007, 11:45 PM	#20 (permalink)
Go The Power Moderator, Microsoft Support Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: South Australia Posts: 10,972 OS: Windows XP Home SP2 Blog Entries: 1	Re: Jen56 is leaving TSF [Resolved] That is great to here that you are back again Jen __________________