Re the teaching issue.....diff between emotionally generous and subtle need to be authoritarian.....versus athoritative. Before I no longer had time, I was ad hoc (not planned)part time fitness trainer. I think I got results among my clients because my goal was to share, educate re all the underlying basics....to empower and work toward autonomy.
Other trainers were horrified......I came 2 realize their goal was/is to be figures of authority/despots and explolit dependency!!!!! Hopefully, forevah. Nice.
One luminous exception is right here on this breathtaking site: the HJT forum! For the seriously trashed/infected/messed up.....these experts, I note with humility, peruse logs with their lasers, then post meticulous chronology of instructions based on contents ofeach log!!!! Aaaaand, with palpable sensitivity to the panic/desperation/time issue of the infected individual.....how amazing is this????Gorgeous/precious/paradigm. No simple thank U is enuff.
But also again brings home the shocking, infinite flaws in all versions of Windows we have come to accept as normal. Steve Jobs' birthday is Feb 24th...I always feel depressed & guilty on that day. So much for the Bettah Mousetrap Wins concept. I should put my money where my mouth is. I know.
But in most arenas....helping others grow Eyes by Marcel......is the ultimate gift....also privilege & joy-making bigtime. But nevah within the secretly insecure! You know....THE
DECIDERS.
J.