Incubat0r

Actually if your not well familiar with mysql or mssql i wouldnt even start making my own server.It requires alot time and ussualy u get bored cuz u play alone also u will need decent machine to run server both and aswell play specific game.So my advise if u are anxious with main game server just pick some private server.@IP hosting if u r planing to play standalone server wiothout frends joining u then you sgould just use your pc adress which is 127.0.0.1
however i made like 5 differnet servers for games which ran just fine but we are siocial speicies and trust that kind of effort wont satisfy your needs, Still if u ever choose to develop your own server which is rather complicating process visit ragezone or mmorpg-dev which is place for desired branche .
Anyway its simply made for multiplayer so why making your own servr which u will abandon in two days just like every1 does ,gl man