I made a last ditch attempt this morning, by reinstalling XP and using those links above and the order you suggested. It worked! Now the only thing missing is my bluetooth.
For anyone else with this problem, I used this order:
Chipset
SM Bus
Video Drivers - (Install framework first)
Modem
Wireless
Ethernet
Sound!
Use the links in Bill's post for the drivers and It should work!
Thanks Bill!